Exactly what Men Look For in Women

What is it that guys look for inside a girl? Girls have been trying to find the answer to this conundrum for years, without ever having much to show for it. Of course , every man is different, and your man falls into this category. Nevertheless, as a rule, even though they all have various desires and needs, if you can offer him the following, he would be fairly damn charmed with you.

Boost his confidence: Men want to feel good. They can be very insecure, and so they need their woman to say to them how great they are, how appealing they are, how strong they are, just how secure they make you feel. They want their particular ego boosting once in a while, and informing him what he wants to listen to is the best way to go about it.

Great Sex: Of course , this can be a necessity, but many ladies seem to neglect it anyway. But boys getting boys, sex is at the very best of their list. They need a woman who will be going to go all out to please them between the sheets, not someone who just lays still and lets your pet get on with it. They want to see enthusiasm from their lover, and they want to see it often!

Good food: Let’ s concede it, many men are quite childish, and they want to be mothered from time to time. And one from the perfect (indeed, most important) methods to do so is to feed him. This individual wants tasty food, he really wants to enjoy it with you, and ideally, he or she needs you to cook it!

Someone exciting: Maybe the most important aspect in any relationship is the entertainment factor. It’ s real for you too, isn’ t it? You require your guy to be thrilling carefree. You need him to do things that surprise you. You need him to exhibit you a fun time, and be initial now and again, right? Of course you do. And it’ s exactly the same for your pet. He wants someone to show your pet a exciting time, just as frantically as you do!

Look great: Men want a partner who appears good, no denials about it. Among the fastest ways to turn off your man is to stop beautifying yourself. Punch on some make up, go shopping occasionally and choose something sexy to wear, and then turn on the style simply for him – he loves it!

Give him some space: Men being men, they also demand their privacy. This means, letting your pet do what he wants by himself (and trusting him! ). He needs a woman who is very happy to let him go to his friends now and then with his mates, go out bowling or even whatever it is that interests your pet. The majority of guys cannot stand getting with their partners all the time, so give him some space – he’ ll love you for it.


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4 Responses to “Exactly what Men Look For in Women”

  • evil chevy:

    I lost all my baby weight, but retain some stretch marks and an ugly c-section scar. My husband acts like it doesn’t bother him.. it’s hard to believe him. (yes, I realize I’m just ASKING for rude comments, but I’m really hoping to hear from some guys who either feel this way or try to make their women feel like they do..)

  • Hayden:

    I keep seeing that women find confident men attractive. Ladies, could you elaborate? Confidence in regards to what exactly? Careers? Sex? Hobbies? How does a man show you he’s confident? Thanks.

  • josh12rox:

    Good looking guys get their pick every weekend. A hot Japanese girl one night, a smoking blonde the next. Of course protected sex is a good idea, but this isn’t about STD’s….this is about good, varied sex. Being good looking means you get it thrown at you, and the more you treat women like crap, the less likely they are to bother you by sticking around afterwards (and the more fun you can have). At the end of the day, they only went for you because they were shallow anyway, so there’s no reason to be good to them. Don’t like it? Get lost, there’s another girl on her way here. As for settling down, as long as women keep giving it to good looking guys, we have no reason to settle down (and sacrifice variety/threesomes for the same old thing every night).
    “attractive and less attractive women can do the same thing”
    Men and women have totally different contexts. Unattractive men could never get away with doing this, they would get even less attention from women for acting this way. Good looking guys can get away with it and actually get rewarded for it.
    *so why should women get annoyed*

    Because they are disrespected by both attractive and unattractive men as a result, as mentioned above.
    And because that very disrespect leads to positive feedback from other women.
    And because that very disrespect leads to positive feedback from other women.
    American Girl-Oh too bad that your bf is going to be stuck with just you for the rest of his life. The attractive guy got you and pletny of other gorgeous girls at the same time. Good for him
    Oh and the good looking BF didn’t even have to put all that effort into treating you well…but he got the same reward that the poor sap you are marrying is getting….and plenty of action on the side as a benefit.
    a man disrespects a woman she has far more scope to return the favour with interest.
    How? By whining when he doesn’t answer the door?

    My point is that women are far more able to behave in the way you describe than men are. Men pretty much depend on female approval for sex when a woman can get it and move on whenever she wants.
    Not good looking men. We don’t can get laid anytime we want.

    Your premise does seem to depend on women wanting to settle down and keep the man but if it is only his looks she has gone for the chances are he was only a casual shag anyway.
    Oh yeah? Are you a man? Have you gone through a lot of women? Because they see, to CONSTANTLY come back for “something more”. Treating them like crap is the best way to move onto he next one.

    If he’s unpleasant to them they have the perfect excuse to move on.
    -No excuse needed when my foots on their backside

    “a man disrespects a woman she has far more scope to return the favour with interest.”
    -How? By whining when he doesn’t answer the door?

    “My point is that women are far more able to behave in the way you describe than men are. Men pretty much depend on female approval for sex when a woman can get it and move on whenever she wants.”
    -Not good looking men. We don’t can get laid anytime we want.

    “Your premise does seem to depend on women wanting to settle down and keep the man but if it is only his looks she has gone for the chances are he was only a casual shag anyway.”
    -Oh yeah? Are you a man? Have you gone through a lot of women? Because they see, to CONSTANTLY come back for “something more”. Treating them like crap is the best way to move onto he next one.

    “If he’s unpleasant to them they have the perfect excuse to move on. ”
    -No excuse needed when my foots on their backside

    Helena: Women only have an advantage in the casual sex arena because they are generally considered more valuable on a purely sexual basis (see:supply/demand). It is precisely for this reason that sex is seen as an uneven trade. Men gain, women lose. It’s the price that women pay for having sexual privileges, and it is widespread throughout society on a subconscious level, in both men and women. You cannot separate value from availability. Of course, you can choose to reject these judgments on an individual level, but most people won’t. Most people will consider you used up and trashy for doing the exact same thing that I do, without even knowing why. You can’t change this and neither can social conditioning. It is the natural consequence of an imbalanced system that you seem very eager to take advantage of. So yes, most women might be able to get away with behavior like yours, but you will always be judged for it. Attractive men have the best of both worlds: the options of women, and t

  • The Inc:

    Is it our fault that you guys are too scared to approach pretty young women these days? to make mistakes? to have enough confidence to chase a women? To take intitiatives?

    I’m not talking about the butt ugly guys who are just persistent and lame, I’m talking about the ok – to good looking guys our age, who are just passive – and are basically too scared to talk to us.

    What’s wrong with you guys?

    Why do you guys go for men or women who are over 35?

    Is it our fault somehow? did we make you like this? or is it the prevalaence on computers and internet and the media?
    Why do girls in this generation end up doing the chasing? I’ve seen incredibly beutiful girls end up with fugly losers, because the guys who were in their league or a tiny bit below never make any effort to talk tot them.
    Jerry, you’re an idiot, there’s nothing about this question which points a finger at men, I am asking whether we should somehow be to blame for guys beocming less manly. F*CK.
    It looks like men are f*cking id*ots, quickly blaming women, everytime they want to change. F*ck you guys.
    Oh who cares, I know what guys want, they just want a scanditly clad women. Gawsh. I think I saw a women in a bras and nickers getting dates high and low.
    Ok you’re right Thand, I didn’t realise, hahaha.
    Men are now portrayed on TV and movies as meek and soft and typically less intelligent and mistake/accident prone and incompetent… the rise of the metrosexual male
    Thanks Thands for telling me beforehands. Well, I’m not really a feminist, but a lot of men assume the girls are feminists, so I just thought to label myself as that,

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